I really thought deciding on a name wouldn't be so difficult. But we can't even agree on one name, let alone two names (first and middle... not two separate names). When we think we have one that at least one of us is okay with, then it turns to: "But I knew a ____ and I just can't name my child that" or "But that's a family name of someone in our generation and that would just be too confusing" or "It has been in the top 25 names for the past 200 years" or "But look at the initials" or "You want to spell it how?" or the one that comes up the most "Nah, I changed my mind on that one." So needless to say we are no where in our name search.
We have spent hours looking at name lists on line and even checked a book out of the library of 75,000+ names. So does anyone have any tips on how you decided names or decided against names? We keep asking her if she likes certain names, but we aren't getting any responses. I know we still have four months, but this just may take us that long!!!
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I agree that it is a very hard process. I suggest making a list of names that neither of you hates...then go to "this one is ok (or good)" and try to find a couple that make both lists. Also, I have found that sometimes names are more appealing once you say the name all together. Oh...another thought...I don't know about Eric, but Matt didn't care about the names as much as I did (he cared...just not as much), so if one of us had to be not as fond of a name, it made more sense for it to be him. :)
ok, here is the real scoop. You agree on a name he likes. About the time the registar is coming in to complete the paperwork (yes, there is always paperwork1) you send him to the vending machine to get you something to eat. You give her the name you like, and when he comes back, you say, oh honey, I thought that was the name we agreed on! Then look pitiful :) Worked for me... ok not really and that isn't fair. Just kidding. When you find the right name, you both will know it. I agree also, say all 3 names together. Then say the name or nickname that you would actually call her and see how they sound. It is not unusual to make a final decission on a name after the baby comes. When you look at her, you will know her name...
Jen, we're in the same boat!!! Though Mark and I don't know yet what we're having, I like to be prepared for either possibility ahead of time and we just can't seem to agree on much either....Everything I love, Mark doesn't and vice versa.
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